Do this first
- Stay calm and ask what happened before you decide what it means.
- Find out which apps or sites, whose identity and which payment method were used.
- Remove saved cards, change banking passwords and tell your bank if your card or account was used.
- Contact the operator to report an underage account and ask for it to be closed.
- Install a gambling blocker on your teen’s devices and talk to a helpline if betting continues.
Start calmly: find out what happened before deciding what it means. Ask which apps or sites were used, how they were paid for, whose name the account is in and how much was spent. A teen using a betting or prediction-market app has usually used an adult’s identity or a false age, because legal operators require users to be adults — Kalshi, for example, requires users to be 18 or older.
Then act on three fronts. Secure money: change card and bank access, remove saved payment methods, and contact the operator and your bank about an underage account. Reduce access: install a gambling blocker and use device controls. Get support: in the U.S. the National Problem Gambling Helpline is 1-800-MY-RESET (call or text); in Great Britain the National Gambling Helpline is 0808 8020 133. Warning signs that need professional help include chasing losses, borrowing or taking money, lying and irritability when trying to stop. GamCare advises an open, non-judgemental conversation over a simple “don’t do it”.
Kalshi Help Center: Signing up as an individual · National Council on Problem Gambling: Help and treatment: National Problem Gambling Helpline · UK Gambling Commission: Gambling and young people · National Council on Problem Gambling: FAQs: What is problem gambling? · GamCare: Support for parents
The parent concern
Parents discover deposits, betting apps or debts and do not know whether this is a teenage phase, a legal problem, a debt problem or an addiction — or how to talk about it without driving it underground.
What you may find on your teen’s phone
| Type | How it works | What to do |
|---|---|---|
| Sports betting app | Real-money bets on sports outcomes; adults only. | Close the account with the operator; secure payment methods. |
| Prediction market | Contracts on real events, including sports; Kalshi requires users to be 18 or older. | Report an underage account; check whose identity was used. |
| Casino-style or sweepstakes site | Casino games with real or redeemable currency; legality varies by place. | Block the site; check for payments and redemptions. |
| Gambling-style game features | Paid random rewards inside games. | Turn off purchases and talk about chance and spending. |
Why this is now a common question for parents
Gambling no longer needs a casino or a betting shop. Common Sense Media’s 2026 research with more than 1,000 U.S. boys aged 11 to 17 found that 36 percent had gambled in the last year, nearly one in eight had bet on sports, six in ten saw gambling ads on YouTube and social media, and one-third had gambled with family members.
Gambling-style mechanics also appear inside games, where paid rewards with random outcomes can blur the line between playing and paying. A teen who has grown up with those mechanics may not see a sports bet or a prediction-market trade as anything different.
Common Sense Media: New research on adolescent boys’ gambling habits
Why Are Kids’ Apps Full of Ads and In-App Traps? A Parent Guide to Dark Patterns
Know what your teen is actually using
Sports betting apps, online casinos, prediction markets, sweepstakes-style casino sites and social casino games can look similar on a phone, but they work differently. Ask your teen to show you the app or site rather than guessing from a bank statement.
Prediction markets let users buy contracts on the outcome of real events, including sports. Kalshi’s help center says users must be 18 or older and may need to pass document verification. The National Council on Problem Gambling has called for a minimum age of 21 and stronger protections against underage participation on these platforms.
Google Play requires real-money gambling apps to prevent under-age users and to carry an adults-only rating. If your teen has an account on a real-money platform, ask whose name and documents were used — an adult’s identity, a sibling’s or a parent’s, is common and changes what you need to do next.
Kalshi Help Center: Signing up as an individual · National Council on Problem Gambling: Consumer protection and prediction markets · Google Play Console Help: Real-money gambling, games and contests policy
Secure the money first
Remove saved cards from app stores, payment apps and the teen’s phone. Change online-banking and payment-app passwords, and turn on purchase approval where your accounts offer it. If your card or account was used without permission, contact your bank promptly and explain that a minor used it for gambling.
Contact the gambling operator through its official support channel, state that the account holder is or was a minor, and ask for the account to be closed. Keep records: screenshots of the account, transaction dates and amounts, and your correspondence. In Great Britain, the Gambling Commission’s codes require operators to verify age before a customer can deposit, and require staff training on the legal requirements for returning stakes and not paying prizes to underage customers. Outcomes in other countries and U.S. states depend on local rules and the operator.
If the account is in your name or another adult’s name, the operator may treat it as that adult’s account. Be honest about what happened; do not try to recover money by giving false information.
UK Gambling Commission: Licence conditions and codes of practice: protection of children and other vulnerable persons · Kalshi Help Center: Signing up as an individual
Block gambling apps and sites on devices
BetBlocker, run by a registered Scottish charity, is free and says it blocks hundreds of thousands of gambling websites and thousands of apps on Windows, Mac, Linux, Android, iOS and other platforms. It includes parental controls and lets restrictions run for a chosen period, from one day up to five years.
Use your phone’s parental controls alongside a blocker: require approval for new app downloads, restrict web content, and remove access to payment methods. A blocker on one device does not cover a friend’s phone, a school computer or a browser on another device, so blocking works best alongside an agreement.
Also turn off gambling advertising where you can, and talk about the adverts your teen sees in sports content and on social media.
BetBlocker (registered Scottish charity): BetBlocker: free gambling blocking · Google Play Console Help: Real-money gambling, games and contests policy
How to Stop Kids From Making In-App Purchases on iPhone and Android
How to talk about it without driving it underground
GamCare advises helping children understand the risks and consequences of gambling in an open and non-judgemental way, and says this is often more beneficial than a prescriptive “don’t do it” approach.
Ask questions you genuinely want answered: what got them started, what they enjoy about it, how much they think they have won and lost overall, and whether they ever bet to win back losses. Explain the maths of betting in plain terms — operators set odds so that, over time, the house is expected to come out ahead.
Separate the behaviour from the person. A teen who feels ashamed is more likely to hide accounts or borrow money than to tell you when things go wrong.
Warning signs that need more than a conversation
The National Council on Problem Gambling lists signs of problem gambling including thinking about gambling all the time, feeling the need to bet more money more often, going back to try to win money back (chasing losses), and feeling restless or irritable when trying to stop or cut down.
GamCare’s guidance for parents adds signs to watch for in young people: becoming moody or restless, acting secretive or lying, missing school or losing interest in hobbies, an increased interest in money, and having more or less cash than usual. Money or items going missing at home is a reason to act quickly rather than wait.
If gambling is linked with low mood, self-harm thoughts or a crisis, treat that as the priority and contact crisis services or emergency services immediately.
National Council on Problem Gambling: FAQs: What is problem gambling? · GamCare: Support for parents
Where to get help
In the U.S., the National Council on Problem Gambling’s National Problem Gambling Helpline is 1-800-MY-RESET (1-800-697-3738), by call or text, with online chat, and NCPG offers a self-assessment for youth and young adults. Some states also promote their own helplines.
In Great Britain, the minimum legal age for most gambling is 18. The Gambling Commission lists the National Gambling Helpline as 0808 8020 133 in England and Scotland or 0808 2819 265 in Wales. In England, the NHS National Gambling Clinic accepts 13- to 18-year-olds from anywhere in England, offers support for family and friends, and accepts self-referral.
Elsewhere, look for a national gambling helpline or ask your doctor. Parents can also seek support for themselves: living with a family member’s gambling is stressful, and helplines support family members too.
National Council on Problem Gambling: Help and treatment: National Problem Gambling Helpline · UK Gambling Commission: Gambling and young people · GamCare: Support for parents · Central and North West London NHS Foundation Trust: National Gambling Clinic
What you can do right now
- Ask what happened before deciding what it means.
- Secure cards, bank access and payment apps.
- Report an underage account to the operator and keep records.
- Install a gambling blocker and require app approvals.
- Call or text a gambling helpline if betting continues or money is missing.
A way to start the conversation
“I’m not going to shout. I want to understand what you’ve been betting on and how it’s going, because these apps are built so the house wins over time. Let’s work out together what happens next.”
A suggested script to adapt, not a clinical intervention.
What technology cannot solve
Blockers and parental controls cover the devices they are installed on, not friends’ phones or every browser. Operators’ age checks can be bypassed with an adult’s identity, and refund outcomes depend on the operator, the payment method and local law.
Questions parents ask
How do teens bet if the apps are for adults?
Usually by using an adult’s identity or a false age. Ask whose details were used, because it affects how the operator and bank respond.
Are prediction markets gambling?
They let users stake money on real events, including sports. Kalshi requires users to be 18 or older; NCPG has called for a minimum age of 21.
Can I get the money back?
Sometimes. Contact the operator and your bank promptly with records. In Great Britain, operators must handle stakes from underage customers under Gambling Commission rules.
How do I block gambling apps?
Use a gambling blocker such as the free BetBlocker alongside app-approval and web-content controls on the device.
Where can we get help?
U.S.: 1-800-MY-RESET (call or text). Great Britain: 0808 8020 133 (England and Scotland). NHS National Gambling Clinic for 13- to 18-year-olds in England.
Sources and review
Provider documentation explains settings and eligibility. Professional guidance provides context, while our suggested family strategies are labeled separately. FamilyAtlas’s device and release limits are stated above.
- Kalshi Help Center — Signing up as an individual fact · checked 2026-10-05
- National Council on Problem Gambling — Help and treatment: National Problem Gambling Helpline safety · checked 2026-10-05
- UK Gambling Commission — Gambling and young people fact · checked 2026-10-05
- National Council on Problem Gambling — FAQs: What is problem gambling? guidance · checked 2026-10-05
- GamCare — Support for parents guidance · checked 2026-10-05
- Common Sense Media — New research on adolescent boys’ gambling habits fact · checked 2026-10-05
- National Council on Problem Gambling — Consumer protection and prediction markets guidance · checked 2026-10-05
- Google Play Console Help — Real-money gambling, games and contests policy fact · checked 2026-10-05
- UK Gambling Commission — Licence conditions and codes of practice: protection of children and other vulnerable persons fact · checked 2026-10-05
- BetBlocker (registered Scottish charity) — BetBlocker: free gambling blocking fact · checked 2026-10-05
- Central and North West London NHS Foundation Trust — National Gambling Clinic safety · checked 2026-10-05
Next source review: 2027-01-05. Menus, eligibility and rollouts can change; follow the linked provider instructions if your screen differs.
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